Showing posts with label Mindset. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mindset. Show all posts

Three must-dos for the first day and week of school

Hello, friends.  It's rare I say something is a must-do, but really, I don't think we can beat around the bush anymore.  Things in society are that urgent these days.  Our students need us to be on point in our classrooms the first day and week of school.  This critical window of time sets the stage for the entire semester.

There are things that either build you up or tear you down.  You decide.


The good news is there are only three must-dos - in my opinion -  you need to carry-out in your classroom during the first day and week of school.  All three can be done on-ground or online (with creative modifications).

Ready for the three?

#1: Mindset training

Do yourself, your students, and society a favor and spend 15-75 minutes leading a lesson or conversation about Dr. Carol Dweck's research on mindset.  For the last three years, I literally won't do anything else on the first day, but spend the entire class period (75 minutes) talking & teaching about mindset only (and honoring the other two must-dos below).  My course syllabus, expectations, upcoming assignments, or delving into course content pails in comparison to the importance of my students understanding mindset and their choice in the mindset matter.

I often use the graphic below in my lesson or mindset conversation, however, this newly released RSA video is so excellent that I plan to use it next time in addition to my regular mindset lesson. Even though the video highlights research related to younger students, I plan to ask my college students:  What does this research mean to you? Even though you are older, how is this research helpful to you as a learner?  What's possible when you embrace a growth mindset?  How will you choose a growth mindset more often this semester? What kind of help or support do you need?


Growth and Fixed Mindset Graphic

For my advanced blog readers and mindset advocates, here's what I do to extend this important lesson: Every 2-3 weeks at the beginning of class, I do a mindset check-in with my students, which generally takes five minutes or less.  I ask my students to share with the class an update regarding their mindset.  Usually, we don't have time for everyone to share, but we get a decent sampling.  I'll ask: Are you being more or less growth minded?  What takes you to a fixed mindset? How do you course correct?  What helps you anchor to a growth mindset? What do you notice about the mindsets around you, your friends and family?  What's possible?

From my experience, dedicating class time to a mindset lesson or conversation is 1000% worth it (Yes!  1,000!).  My students report being more open-minded, honest, willing to try new things and refusing to play the victim anymore. What they overwhelming tell me is how amazed they are they have a choice in the manner.  Isn't that incredible?  They realize they are in charge of their mindset, not life's ups and downs (nor other people) pushing them around.

#2:  Speaking aloud in front of peers

The research from decades ago says you have to have your students talk aloud in front of their peers on the very first day of class in order to set the expectation that you want participation and volunteerism all semester long.  I don't care if you ask students to publicly introduce themselves and share what they did over the summer/winter break (think back to your elementary school days when we all did this).  OR you make speaking-aloud-in-front-of-your-peers more sophisticated.  My solution is to tie speaking-aloud to our class lesson on mindset.  Then, I feed two birds with one feeder, yes?

I typically will introduce the concept of mindset (from above) and ask students to first share with a partner, What do you already know about Dr. Carol Dweck's research? (by the way, hardly any of my students over the past three years know anything about mindset, which is a great indicator they need this lesson!) Then, I will ask students towards the end of our mindset lesson, What did you learn about mindset and your mindset today?  See how easy it is to accomplish #1 and #2?  Let's move onto #3 then.  You can easily include the last must-do in in your mindset lesson.

#3:  Calling each other by first name

Last semester, I overheard a student say, "This is the only class I'm in right now where I know everyone's name."  What?  Out of four classes, this is the only one?  No wonder one of the top reasons college students drop-out of college is because they feel disconnected.  They feel like they are not part of the college, their courses, a peer group, nothing.  Disconnection from others - surprise, surprise - is also one of the top reasons high school students report dropping out of high school.

And guess what?  Feeling disconnected from others is one of the two main profile attributes of terrorists.  Yep.  Disconnection, again.  Spoiler alert:  The other main profile attribute of terrorists is feeling hopeless - sounds like the fixed mindset, doesn't it?  Yep.  The fixed mindset loves to blame others, be the victim, and sees no other alternatives.

Are you picking up what I'm putting down?  These three must-dos are that important.

Bottom line:  Your students need to know each other. They need to feel and be connected.  The easiest way to begin that connection is by knowing each other's names.  Hi, Sarah, I didn't see you in class last week.  Hey there, Tommy, may I borrow your notes?  Hello John, want to form a study group for the midterm exam?

AND....

It's so easy to learn each other's names.  My top two strategies in a face-to-face class to have everyone know each other's names include:
  1. I give each student one of those over-sized index cards and a thick marker.  The student folds the index card in half, writes their first name in big letters, and then has a name placard to keep on their desk (and reuse each class) until 3-4 weeks into the course.  By that time, students and I know each other's names from seeing each other's names so consistently.
  2. Every time I ask students to get into pairs or small groups and discuss something, I explicitly instruct them to:  Say hello by first name, then answer the question prompt.  At the end of pairs or small group work, I explicitly say, Thank your partner(s) by first name.  Within 2-3 weeks and different pairings, everyone knows each others's names because they've said each other's names so often and I am explicit about those directions (and expectations).  In a larger class, this will obviously take more time, but it is doable.
Holy moly that was a longer blog post than I intended.  

Important stuff equals a longer blog post, I suppose.

Please let me know if I missed anything or if you have any questions!  I'm so hungry because I was in flow writing this post that I'm about to become fixed minded if I don't feed myself immediately. #hangry

Off I go - It's dinner time, friends!

Jen

PS - (I just ate dinner, so I'm back!) I've been using the Coaching Cards Jackie and I developed to help fend off the fixed mindset and anchor me more lately to the growth mindset.  As I mentioned in this blog post, the Coaching Cards are now part of my everyday essentials.

My Favorite Line So Far

Fall in love with failure - Jen Lara

Yesterday I started Chapter 3 in my book.  Chapter 3 is all about what I call the Power Triad - growth mindedness, play, and creativity.

This line might be my favorite in the book so far:  Fall in love with failure.   I wrote that line in relation to nurturing a growth mindset.  If you can't remember what a growth mindset is, check out my posts here and here.  Dr. Carol Dweck's research on mindset is truly amazing.

Back to writing, I go.  Have a great day!

xo,

Jen

PS - My goal by the time my sabbatical ends in January is to write the first draft of four chapters (the entire book is eight chapters, plus an introduction and "Grow Yourself" activities) and to have a completed book proposal pitched to an agent/publishing company.


Daniel Pink in Person. Pinch Me.


My soul is on fire again.

Yesterday, I had the pleasure of seeing my very favorite author in person - Daniel Pink.  You might remember him from my blog posts here and here.  I adore his last three books and literally could read his book Drive over and over again.  Have you read Drive?  Treat yourself; trust me.

I was this close to him during his talk.


Although I had heard most of what he spoke about online - I especially like this RSA Animate video of him - it was still amazing to see him speak in person.  He is so bright, clever, creative and packs a zesty sense of humor.  I can't believe I just described any part of his style as zesty.

Help me.

Three things made my soul ablaze:

  1. I publicly asked Pink which books or writers he would suggest for parents and grandparents to read.  Guess what?   He said anything by Alfie Kohn.  Check.  (remember my blog post here and here about Alfie).  A writer I am not familiar with Amanda Ripley.  And (drum roll, please), Mindset by Dr. Carol Dweck.  Remember my blog post here from two weeks ago?  In fact, Pink said, not to buy his books and only buy Mindset and read it.  "It's that good."  At that point, I just about fainted as it validates everything I've been thinking and doing since November.
  2. You know when you sit by someone and strike up a conversation and that chance conversation literally changes your life.  The guy next to me did not know it, but the brilliant things he said to me will not stop playing and replaying in my mind.  I'd love to share them right now, but a) I'm still mulling them over in the most deepest way and b) my family is wondering when I will be off this computer.  Thus, more on that chance encounter another day.  I love those gifts from the universe.
  3. This event was co-supported by System Source, an IT company.  System Source splurged and bought Drive books for each one of the attendees.  Since Lil O's teacher next year is a Daniel Pink fan, too, I asked Pink to sign the free book for her.  Isn't that a fun teachery surprise - an autographed Daniel Pink book?  Lil O will deliver it tomorrow.

OK, I said I would get off this computer in ten minutes and my ten is up.

With a blazing soul and I really have so much more to write,
Jen

PS - This fantastic graphic-recorder person, Kelly Kingman, sketched out Daniel Pink's talk as he was talking! Do you see the photo all the way up above?  Isn't her work amazing?  Like learning eye-candy.  I'd love to have her sketch one of my classes or the keynote I just gave.  Ahhhhh.....





Three Books I'd Recommend

Just in case you want some inspiring New Year's reading, here are three books I would recommend in a heartbeat.


Unthink by Erik Wahl
If you like reading about creativity or how to foster more creative thinking in yourself and others, Unthink is a super read.  I like to write in my books and I marked more things in this book than I usually do, which is a great sign to me.


To Sell is Human by Daniel Pink
Pink's books are always rock solid, in my opinion.  This one is no exception.  As a teacher and parent I am constantly "selling" ideas and attempting to move others.  This book captures the science and psychology around both. Since Pink seems to be doing a fair amount of speaking around the country featuring ideas from this book, you might be lucky enough to catch him and have your book signed :)


Mindset by Dr. Carol Dweck
This book is probably my favorite read from the past couple of months.  It is very "coachy" and you know how I adore {personal} coaching.  Plus, every human on the planet could benefit from a growth-mindset as described extensively by Dweck in this book.  I'm hoping Mr. UpCyclist will read it soon, too.  It is that good.

Do you have any book recommendations for me?  I just went to my local public library to get a new stash and all the titles I wanted were checked out.  Thus, I let these books find me.

Jen

*All the links for books are Amazon Affiliate links, which means if you click on them and purchase anything from the link, I will earn a small commission.  Thanks, Amazon!  With that said, I would highly recommend these three books regardless.